


Individual sacred sexuality and Yoni healing

The rites of passage that we go through from puberty to menopause can have a positive or negative association - from absent or painful menstruation, to childbirth, to pleasurable sex, to trauma. From what we are told when we are young not to be promiscuous, to derogatory names if we have had many sexual partners. This can lead to guilt or shame that can be stored in the body. Maybe there has even been a perception of the genitals been seen as sinful or dirty.
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. It literally means "Divine Passage" or "Sacred Temple." The seed of our sexuality is in our heart. By following the guidance, we learn to connect our heart to our yoni’s pleasure. This leads to a place where the yoni can be experienced as fully as the heart.
Yoni healing begins to unfold this delicate flower to help us connect with sexuality, sensuality, playfulness, love and innocence. There is so much emotion and trauma held in the yoni. To open there and release that clears the way for a whole new level of sexual experience. This process of healing the yoni, of releasing fears and trauma, is like pulling the weeds from a garden to allow space for beautiful flowers to grow. Sacred Yoni Healing allows us to plant these flowers within our bodies — flowers of love, joy and ecstasy.
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The goal of the Sacred Yoni Healing is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the yoni. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal.
Benefits of the Sacred Yoni Healing:
1. Healing from pain, trauma
2. Sexual healing or overcoming sexual trauma from childhood or recent experiences
3. Embracing your inner divinity, sexually and spiritually with relaxation
4. Sexual dysfunction or lack of interest or hypersexuality issues
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Your first journey into Yoni empowerment.
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Women were born with the natural ability to have multiple waves of orgasmic bliss and thus are very blessed and very fortunate.
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Our goals may all be varied. Perhaps you are out of tune with your own body’s needs. Maybe it has been a long time since you experienced the pleasure of touch without limiting goals and expectations. Some are very blessed and can achieve full body bliss naturally with little guidance. Some are very much attune and in the moment as we open up to receive full body pleasure with expectations.
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But what do we do if you are not multiorgasmic? How do you express your unique needs to your partners unless you uncover your hidden treasures and your strong divine feminine presence?
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You all want to feel feminine and empowered. You want to carry yourselves as Goddesses and want to explode in passion for your lovers being overcome in the joy of Goddess hood.
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But what do we do if we came from repressive childhood experiences? What if we were not honored but simply “controlled” by our parents and we were not made to feel safe or powerful? This complicates your sexual aura and you might have challenges picking partners who reflect your powerful Goddess energy. If you feel powerless and misunderstood, how can you attract a man or a woman in your lives who can honor your creative life force?
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Yoni healing is the empowering of your yoni. A goddess reawakening is like a Baptism and you are allowed to really feel for the first time in your lives. Your gentle yonis can become numbed if your backgrounds did not allow you to receive the gentle touch you deserve.
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The work your healer does together is necessary work and one of these days you might wake up realizing time has gone by too quickly and you still have needs and strong desires that have not been fulfilled or explored.
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Women are sensitive, caring, sensual creatures. When we are fully awakened our sexual energy has the power to create more abundance in your life and make you a far more intuitive being with a grounded confidence and assuredness.
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When you are allowed to release your pent up sexual energy in the form of amrita(nectar) you gradually awaken your pineal gland and you heal your endocrine system without the need for medication. We can poison our bodies with negative self thought and medications or we can become empowered healers and shaman women who are fully in control of our bodies and our choice in partners.
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When you focus on the moment and we learn circular breathing techniques we become fully alive and we have the potential to achieve orgasms anywhere and everywhere in the body if we learn to release guilt and expectations of ourselves and others. Even the mere touch of a feather will send mind blowing waves of electricity throughout your being. We learn to activate our chakra system with light, water touch a touch so powerful it supersedes the need for a deep tissue massage.
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When you focus on healing your yoni your physical pain subsides and your pelvis is freer and less tight to the touch. When you have a juicy yoni and a relaxed pelvis you activate the waters in your second chakra and this is known as “stirring the waters”. It is not necessary for you to engage in sexual intercourse in order to heal your trauma. It is a conscious touch activated with your conscious breath that allows you to open up the opportunity for kundalini shakti or full body awakening.
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Sometimes due to social conditioning women are expected to be vocal or orgasm on command or simply fake it for the sake of not injuring the fragile ego of her lover. Some women have shut down their sexual drive because of their religious belief systems or a sense of guilt or a feeling that sex is not important. Some unfortunate few have never known the pleasure of gentle foreplay in a non rushed and loving environment. Here is where your healer becomes the healing agent of the Divine feminine. You have a right as women to state your sexual needs so that we can be honored and held sacred in a state of complete honor and non judgement. You have the right to receive pleasure without feeling guilty. You deserve this and bliss is your birth rite!
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Yoni healing focuses on openness and teaches us how to accept our bodies and be fully present and relaxed during the sacred act of receiving pleasure from ourselves or from our partner.
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Did we even begin to mention that this pathway can change our outlook on life and can change your opportunities for enhanced confidence and more creative flow? You are a sexual being. You are a fully energized being with Kundalini Shakti energy just waiting to be active and empowered. Our possibilities are endless and our bodies should be honored and explored as sacred temples. If you can learn to control and connect your breath with your body and your sexual power you can lose yourself for that one moment in time and taste unbridled passion. I am not saying this will happen all at once in session. In fact I am not even promising you can achieve all this in the span of a year. Since we are constantly changing and evolving we can explore our orgasmic potential and realize we are expanding heart and yoni consciousness safely and intuitively ON OUR TIME and no one else’s time table.
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Our heart chakras hold the key to our Yoni. When we massage around our breasts and tap our sternums we awaken our fragile emotions. We circumvent the yoni initially starting with our hearts and holding hands because our inner palms are an extension of our heart chakra energies.
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In a Yoni healing therapy session, your whole body will be sensually awakened. As we know, it takes time and a full body approach to arouse women fully. As a woman’s positive sexual pole is in her heart, around your breasts will be massaged to open your heart, which then opens the channel between your heart and your yoni. Only then would a woman be ready for yoni healing, and only if she wants it. It may take a couple of sessions before you feel ready, and that’s ok.
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The main goal of a Yoni healing is to help you learn more about your body and to help you establish healthy boundaries on touch. You will be in complete control during our shared time together. You will actively give a voice to all your needs and goals. Your healer is there to help you uncover trauma with gentle and intentional touch. Your vaginal walls can collect tension, stress, scar tissue and armouring from years of neglect or abuse. If you send out harmful thoughts to your yonis, your yonis contract energetically and become shut down. The purpose of our time together is to help you open up these wounds and help you get rid of unneeded and unhealthy negative self talk. We don’t necessarily look for a full body orgasm when we honor and heal the yoni but we do send healing energy light and try for a tender approach so that you feel honored and you can slowly get in touch with your feminine desire.
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Yoni healing therapy is a sacred healing practice based on ancient techniques and wisdom, combined with therapeutic and bodywork methods of many traditions, and redefined for our age and time. It works with the life/sexual energy of the whole body, honouring the entire being, awakening the senses, releasing blocked energy and bringing greater joy, eroticism, sensitivity, expansion and aliveness to all the levels of your being.
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This space is held by your healer to feel deeply into the radiance of the Feminine, to shadow hunt the places where we would act and protect from our wounding and stay small, closed down, rather then hold and become the greatest free flowing, open, surrendered essence that is the gift of the Goddess within us all.
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The sessions work in many ways, on the emotional, mental, physical and spiritual plane and involve body work, breath and meditations, intimacy coaching, conscious touch, shamanic healing and embodiment of Goddess. It is deeply honouring of the person you are and helps to heal the blocked flow of love and sexual energy in your body which can express and be experienced as lack of desire, sexual frustration, repression of the authentic self and resentment towards others, loss of creativity, dis-ease or pain in the body, as well as a general lack of joy in life.
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The Mysteries which is Goddess in the female body holds all the wisdom, healing and ecstatic home coming we could ever hope for already within. This is the power of your sacred source place; the connection between your creative energy flow, the joyful dance of the life force in you and your heart’s flame. Deep in the core of your body, the gateway into the reclaiming of the Radiance of the Devine Feminine that is yours awaits to illuminate your life’s path.
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Yoni healing therapy can show you the way to this path as it allows you to work on deep issues and wounding often stuck for many years, and bring healing by releasing deep tissue memory. The experience of your own life force energy as sacred allows for the realization of who you are to be deeply integrated and is deeply honouring of the person you are. In sessions we will be guided by the body’s memory and energy, always held in sacred, loving space. The benefits of
Yoni massage therapy and sacred sexuality sessions are experienced in the healing of relationship and self confidence issues, in the letting go of resentment and projection which can cloud all the experiences of relating, address sexual issues, often felt to be dis-functions of the body, enhance authenticity, and offer a place to practice presence and surrender and to rediscover Love.
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Sessions guide gently into experiencing the potential of all you can be already present in this moment now. They may involve yoni healing but usually center around different touch, as well as breath, movement, energy healing and soul retrieval as well as embodiment of Goddess and the experience of your sensual sexual energy freely flowing in your body.
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Yoni, meaning Sacred Source is a place that is often not honoured, seen, visited with respect for her wisdom and beauty or thought of with any positivity by most modern Western women. Yoni healing rituals are a way back into Yoni awareness and into the ancient women ways, honouring the body wisdom of our sacred source.
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Yoni healing is a deeply honouring healing practice working within a sacred held space within strong boundaries and guided by the permission of the body, allowing to feel and access often unconscious or denied emotions stored in the cellular memory of the tissues.
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When something is emotionally too intense for us, we put something of this experience away. However important to our immediate survival this may be, resisting the fullness of our experiences hurts. Numbness, emotional confusion and hypersensitivity are the usual results. The ability to suppress difficult feelings is valuable for survival. It is imperative for our mental stability and emotional maturity though, to revisit and face our feelings. We generally do not do this. To clear the pasts influences completely, to be free from unconscious anger and frustrations, and to be fully alive in your body takes courage and commitment. Yoni healing provides an opportunity for this kind of work.
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With dedication and honouring what is, we follow the aliveness of the body to guide it to release, to allow feeling. Emotion then can be fully experienced in the being and body, and the yoni becomes the gateway into the conscious experience of pleasure, ecstasy and the sacred she actually is. This truth can often be surprising, it sets you free from the need to suppress, and more importantly, frees you from the consequences of that suppression in your body and life.
This work is a gift to your self and through you to your relationships and interactions with others. It may expands you into states of ecstatic bliss and often allows you to relax into a state of orgasmic trance, where your whole body is experienced as erotic. Sacred Sexuality and Yoni healing Therapy helps women to experience orgasmic energy, kundalini or life force in their body and assists surrender into a state of bliss. Deeply honouring and a powerful healing way of working with your sexuality.

